My suggestion would be to be available but not invasive. Under absolutely no circumstances should you be the one initiating conversations about the past. Start building a new relationship with the adult she has become. Maybe ask if there is a day they have available to spend together at a playground or event in your area. Especially when it comes to the Father tracking down the daughter. I have three kids who have grown up without a dad- I promise u. They’re mad at him but they NEED TO KNOW THEY ARE LOVED. I think Wolf it’s not over when you lose it’s over when you quit shirt is appropriate gift.
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It will never be ok to do this. It is a mega emotional mindfuck to have someone come (and that too in old age) at your door, when you truly believe in your heart you have reasons to never wish to associate with that person again. All women reading this HONY post who have had an absent present husband/father, will understand what this mans ex must have had to go through. Before she made a decision to choose a better life for herself. Sometimes it is better to not have someone there. if them being there is more of them taking up space, than actively being a member of the family in a responsible way.
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Bobby Bautista not all parents are deserving of thankfulness and gratitude. Some of us are happier people without our parents or other family members in our lives. You cannot choose Wolf it’s not over when you lose it’s over when you quit shirt but you can choose whether or not they are deserving of being a part of your life. We don’t know the daughter’s side of the situation and you don’t know if he gave up. Anything in servitude to his daughter. As someone who had extremely selfish parents who took more than they gave and never showed love. I find this argument that every parent is deserving of your life and that they all give love offensive. Maybe there is no real reason for the estrangement but maybe their reasons are entirely valid.