These two are a good example. They’re both neuroscience majors and apparently similar hobbies, as far as religious and community stuff goes. So even if they didn’t end up together, they’d have things to talk about and opportunities to enjoy each other’s company. Probably preaching to the choir but. yeah, we should all try to shoot for that. These comments are unbelievable. Y’all don’t get to shame a guy into being friends post-rejection and suffer unrequited feelings. Thinking he should is nothing but crass entitlement. This is coming from a Camper apparently were trouble when we camp together shirt who generally prefers to stay friends afterwards.
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I got to stay as a friend too but only after I stayed away for a few weeks to sort out my feelings. Having my choice respected is the only way a real friendship can exist, even if it means deciding to stay away from her. Do you know how I know she was a good person and friend. As she turned me down she asked if I should maybe consider dropping the friendship if it continues to hurt and that she’ll understand if I decide so. Even after turning me down she was concerned about my feelings (which I’m seeing in none of the comments), which I appreciate her for.
You don’t get to bring the friendzone argument and twist it to say a guy should stay. ‘Friendzone’ is a thing, and it is to be avoided. The rejected person gets to decide whether to continue the friendship, and you don’t get to be resentful if he or she decides not to as long as he or she does it respectfully. If the rejected person can move on and continue as friends, then good. You’ll get more out of it. If they can’t, if their unrequited feelings is going to interfere with them being good friends. Then it’s best to value the time they spent together and say their goodbyes. Neither decision is better then the other, only that the decision must be delivered respectfully and accepted gracefully.
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Oh and by the way, the primary concern on staying friends afterward is will he continue to have Camper apparently were trouble when we camp together shirt for her. (genders reversed too, but mostly concerns men who are the major potential rejectees as approachers). In which case it is harmful and shouldn’t continue. If you as the rejecter don’t care about this then you are self-absorbed and not a good friend. Instead I’m seeing a lot of ‘if he stops being friends then he wanted her for her sex’ argument. Nice shaming tactic. Good marker of people to avoid as friends.